by smaclaughlin | Apr 19, 2015 | anger, balance, brain development, brain science, communication, cooperation, emotional intelligence, handling meltdowns
They say you teach what you most need to learn. I couldn’t agree more. I have immersed myself in child development, psychology, emotional competence, healing trauma, family therapy (my own), early childhood education, and social work for the past 20 years. There...
by smaclaughlin | Nov 9, 2014 | balance, connection parenting, developmental expectations, discipline, emotional intelligence, modeling, play
Play is the first language your child speaks. It’s one that can be sustained and enjoyed for life if it is nurtured. When we tune in and play with children—really connect and play—we offer them a mirror of worthiness. Babies and kids receive that loving attention and...
by Sarah MacLaughlin | Jul 15, 2012 | balance, blog tour, interview, mindful parenting, my life, resources
I was absolutely delighted to meet Carrie Contey this week and get to know about her and her revolutionary work with parents and families. Carrie’s manner is direct and kind, her message is both simple and a well integrated blend of science and real life. Her...
by Sarah MacLaughlin | Jun 13, 2012 | balance, developmental expectations, emotional intelligence, modeling, trust
Really. Trust your child. Just try it. Trust that he or she is doing the very best they possibly can under the circumstances. They are calling none of the shots. They have few rights and zero power. Not to mention their under-developed brains and emotional volatility....
by Sarah MacLaughlin | Mar 8, 2012 | balance, perspective, self-care, simplify
Winter has simplified our surroundings. After a fresh snowfall everything is white and our whole landscape becomes pristine and beautiful. The minimalism of this lack of color is so calming. Because this white blanket falls upon us, and the light and temperatures are...
by Sarah MacLaughlin | Jan 12, 2012 | advocacy for children, balance, emotional intelligence, hope for the future, mindful parenting, my life, perspective, social work
Guest Sermon at Norway UU Church, January 8, 2012 It’s great to be back at this church. My parents have been members of this congregation for a number of years. I have always found it to feel very comfortable here. I guess that’s why they call it a sanctuary. A home...